Well, he spilled it to them that I was thinking of leaving (in tears, and with no one else to talk to) back in the Spring of '04 - when everything was koas here. Of course that lead to copious questions and I filled them in on our secrets to justify my feelings. They were so against me breaking up the marriage and were sure to remind me that I came from a broken home. Come to think of it, up until this enlightenment for them, they didn't even know I had been raped as a teenager.
