I completely understand. H made the mistake of sharing our problem with my parents and now whenever they visit or call, I get asked how our sex life is going, etc. Damned frustrating and extremely difficult for me to just say, none of your business - for some reason.
Yes Hairdog, I did look up to her. For months after my visit with her, my father told me how much she valued my visit and couldn't stop talking about how wonderful I was! I ran to the stores to pick up anything she needed and ordered food in since she didn't want to leave her apartment. It was terribly difficult to leave for my flight. I was very happy to know she passed in her sleep and never suffered any pain - she simply became more and more tired and lethargic.
Anyhow, here I am, back at divorcebusting. I know nothing is going to change unless I change - so I'm ready to work on myself. I'm looking for exercises and advice to help me start feeling attractive and sexy. It's been a long time since I took much time to pamper myself - so having a nice bath at least once a week should be a good start. I can't remember the last time I took a bath. I usually take a quick shower.
Yesterday I read a post recommending a book about reclaiming your sexual desire or something. Now I can't find it! If anyone can lead me back to it or recommend any books, please do so.
I usually take a quick shower.
