LFL: Sure, I used to feel the same way. I was so flattered that he just couldn't keep his hands off, etc. But... when it happens time after time, after you've said no, when you're menstruating, when you need a shower, ... it's not flattering at all. I see your point. No one said R/M would be easy. We like one thing one day and then time goes by and it's no longer a turn on. Women do this probably more than men. I like a variety of things. H tends to stick to the tried and true but that can get old. Hope things work out for you. LFL
