Hmm..I was thinking the same thing Chrome. I would wake up for sure. In fact, I think if I am in a loving R/M with someone that it would be kind of hot to be woken up that way. All sleepy with H just having to have me right then and there. But I'm a rare bird.
I guess the point is that other R problems are causing Hairdog's W and others to react so negatively to a situation that I would not consider a violation. Just a females perspective on that. Now, the Dr. Phil situation is definitely not cool since it went as far as her being able to get pregnant without her consent! But if all bc issues are covered and we are in a good R, the wake up sex is not a bad thing. 2 cents from LFL.