Talk about synchronicity... W came up to bed last night, saying that she had just watched an episode of "Dr. Phil" in which a woman found out she was pregnant, but did not remember having sex with her husband in the previous few months. It turned out that he had sex with her while she was asleep. My W said it reminded her of the times she had awakened to find me playing with her naughty bits (actually, once with her genitals, once with her breasts, but who's counting?)
H: But, as I explained back then, I thought you were awake. W: Yes, the guy on TV said that too, but clearly he knew she was asleep. H: Well, I didn't. W: The guy was very cavalier. All his wife wanted was for him to apologize, and for him to "get it." You know, to understand what a huge violation it is. H: I apologized back then, and I "get" the violation issue. Why are you bringing this up again? W: It just made me remember how I felt back then. I just wanted to tell you about it. H: I don't think you need to add to the list of things we already have to argue about.
You know, I really do "get it." And I "got it" back then, too. Sheesh.
