I haven't read the book but I am familiar with the concept. This was not my problem. I never nagged or criticized my H because my expectations were so low he barely had to do anything to meet them. The problem is my expectations were so low he couldn't respect himself for doing so little and he couldn't respect me because I tried too hard to please him.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
