I fully expect that my H will do something today that will be the equivalent of turning off his cell phone. I didn't treat him like a child last night, so he will probably "act out" in order to get some "maternal" attention.
I have to say it's much better to be thinking about my relationship rather than reacting to it. Perhaps this is another way to "differentiate".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
