As long as I am on the topic of all the other things that are wrong with my H besides the sex, I should add that I sometimes worry that he is an alcoholic. Though I might not be a good judge of this because if I have 5 drinks in one month that would be a heavy drinking month for me.
There are a lot of good things about my H too. For instance, he knows his own weaknesses and he is frequently able to laugh at himself. In fact, I would say that the shared character trait of a good sense of humor is the only thing that is going to get us out of this mess we've made of our marriage.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
