Hi, MM.

I wanted to ask you a few questions.

What you said about your husbands car and the gym has me thinking. I hope these questions aren't painful for you.

Do you feel like a "second class citizen" sometimes around your husband?

Does he make statements or judgments that make you feel slovenly?

Does he make you feel like he is doing you a favor by doing something you ask of him, including sex?

Are the two of you equitably involved in your relationship?

You had mentioned that your kids think you are 'goofy' and a 'space cadet'. Are those fond playful opinions, or do they have a deeper root?

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.