Well, it's me again. I haven't posted to you much although I read you all the time. Right now you are about 3 miles ahead of me on my journey.
"My what to do suggestions"...And God only knows I always want to do something, even if it's wrong I still always want to do something. LOL
1. validate 2. listen 3. don't take it personally 4. don't feel like you have to respond or have the answer or fix your H, just keep on being there for him 5. When you are about ready to puke because you have just plain had enough, then walk away, leave the house, or come talk to us 6. Don't keep asking him about OW, let it be, let it be. Make your mind, your home, your car, wherever, an OW-free zone. 7. Pray, pray for wisdom, guidance, discernment, and a heart to love your H even when he isnt being lovable 8. count your blessings, some of us, including me, would give our eyeteeth to be where you are at now 9. be kind to yourself, look at the big pic, You are doing great, you are a huge dbing success and a great encouragement to lots of us
