Saturday I commented about rearranging the family room so it would be available for either "passionate romantic interludes or hot naughty sex" (it has skylights that are pretty cool to look at the stars through)...H said "I prefer romance, it's more fun"....that knocked MY socks off...I commented that I was sure in the past that he had NOT liked it, that he'd actually told me as much. H agreed, said "I was really depressed and closed off then, I'm not now". He commented that his interest in romance was one of the benefits to come from the A, and I should be glad he had found out how much he likes it. I commented that I was glad he'd learned that information, but very unhappy with where/how he'd learned it. He just nodded.

H discovered the little treasure chest I bought for the "kidnapping kit", asked what it was for, and I told him I was putting together a kidnapping kit. He said OW always talked about kidnapping him . GRRRRRRRRR If I was a dog I'd bite her ankle.

been around awhile!