Well dang, you all, if I have to be mature and level headed about this, can I at least have cheese-lovers pizza delivered to her house????? I hear she LOVES it! OK, I'll rethink the shirt, but it sounds like so much fun, and much kinder than choking her. I did get myself some flowers though, havent said a word to H about them.
I know you're right Dawn, I gotta keep the self-defeating backsliding down, and I will. I'm gonna refocus on the "good stuff", H really craves that, obviously. I did check out hotels here locally with whirlpool suites last night, so I know which ones are an option. I told H I'm planning his kidnapping, and he sounded kind of "tickled", and asked "where to?", told him I couldnt tell someone where I was kidnapping them to, and he said "well it kind makes a guy wonder", so I took that as a positive. H initiated ML last night and this morning, so I guess that is a sign that things are going well, we didnt talk last night about OW/A, which is ok, I'm just following his lead on that.
