Or I should say, "YEAH Deb!" I think you are doing wonderfully well. It is so good to hear how much you are enjoying and appreciating this good fortune.
Your H's walls have really come tumbling down. It think it's great that you are listening and validating. He really needs to get all of this off his chest. It's part of his healing process. (I think it's a good thing for you NOT to listen to any stories about sex life. Glad to hear that you set that boundry for yourself.)
As far as romantic ideas....if I come up with any, I'll let you know. What I read so far sounds excellent. A reminder to remember his LL in all things.
I remember my H telling me how proud he was of me through-out this whole mess and how he knows that if it wasn't for me and my efforts we would be divorced right now. (Not saying that we are safe just yet though.) Anyway, Dbing seems to be the ultimate act of love, doesn't it?
Lastly, have to add that I was LMAO as I read about the blue sweatshirt! And here I thought red was the color that ignited fury........LOL.
