BTW--the best revenge is showing that you are of better character than another person.
Xow (different than xrm--this was the one night stand) used to go into the pub H worked at every week. I had this nasty habit of making sure that I always looked nice and then dropped in on those nights. H couldn't stand her being there--he found it to be very disrespectful...especially after he specifically asked her not to be there.
Anyway, I was there several times when she was. I used to just stare at her... I'm sure she could feel it. There were several nights she had more than enough opportunity to speak to me. One time she passed me in the restroom. Another time she walked aaaaall around me, talking to people beside me and behind me.
The stupid skank never had the guts to actually say anything to me.
Don't get me wrong, if she'd said two words to me, it probably would have come to blows. H used to beg me not to confront her because of his job. (And we did need it at the time.) I never did--because he asked me not to--and eventually most of the patrons knew and liked me. They would talk about how nice I was and how pretty I was and how well H and I matched. And xow had to hear aaaall about it.
In the end, even her "friends" told her to leave him (us!) alone. I think I got the best revenge out of that one. She made herself look like the idiot. And I'm actually very glad I never confronted her--because I managed to show I was much, much classier than her.
Revenge can come in the most unexpected ways....and sometimes it's better that way.
There were several nights she had more than enough opportunity to speak to me. One time she passed me in the restroom. Another time she walked aaaaall around me, talking to people beside me and behind me. 