Hey Dawn and Nevanna, I'm chuckling here as I digest your input. Actually I think both ideas are on target. I think I PREFER Dawns (uh-oh!) but that for now Nevanna's is the better way to go, for the reason's that Nevanna stated, and also that it will help me to appear different/better than OW, since H sees her as a scary hothead who can't be trusted.
That reminds me of something else I forgot to post, H mentioned this weekend how I have been "reframed" by this whole situation into being seen as the patient, loving, wise one in his eyes. Works for me, I don't want to blow it! He also said that OW was pretty shook when I showed up on her porch pounding on the door in January when I found H shacked up there for the weekend. Said she'd never been scared before, but that scared the heck out of her. Serves her right!!!!
So, my thought is I'm gonna play it cool and calm, but if I so much as get ANY contact from her, the gloves are off. I'm thinking of how I will respond....I just want to answer the phone and have an indication it's her, I'll be so breathless from ML at the time that her skin will crawl, not to mention how "occupied" I will tell her he is at the time! and I hope it is at noon! I guess you could say I'm chomping at the bit. ohhhhhhh, I just had a nasty thought. I'm going to one of these weekends "kidnap" h for a romantic getaway/interlude. Theres a neat little bed/breakfast about 2 blocks from her house. I could kidnap him and take him there and paint "2nd honeymoon" in big letters on the car windows. just one to tuck in the idea file.
in his eyes. Works for me, I don't want to blow it! He also said that OW was pretty shook when I showed up on her porch pounding on the door in January when I found H shacked up there for the weekend. Said she'd never been scared before, but that scared the heck out of her. Serves her right!!!!
