Hi Ellie and dfb....thanks for dropping in. I'm going to keep my focus on building on the positive, but I'm no longer going to close my eyes to the lies, etc., I really hope and pray, and believe, that they are over.
Ellie, you are so right about how screwed up the WAS/MLCer's are. Honestly, this is the kind of person H has ALWAYS avoided like the plague. It's always been just unbelievable to me that he would ever take up with some one like her. but I've come to see that was part of the appeal, she was so different and I think such a "forbidden fruit" in so many ways (never mind that there would be a jillion good reasons why she should be forbidden!)
