Hey Nevanna, these are good points. My H is also very sensitive to criticism, he has often taken things as criticism that I didnt intend as such, so I have to be very careful, and I hadnt thought of it before, but I bet that's a key to his response.
I'm also trying to REALLY get in the habit of appreciating the things he does that I like, and I'm starting to see them happen a little more as well.
It's interesting though, I've just realized that only now have I ever started to share with him my true, innermost feelings, no holds barred ( well, few holds barred)....never ever have I done this, and I think that's how we got to the point that we felt like the other person didn't love us anymore. How sad.
I sure would like to get a love letter from him, though.
