Hi Nevanna and Slowly, thanks so much for stopping by. I gotta check out the KLA stuff. I know what you mean when you say you were so focused on the goal you felt lost when you reconciled....that's exactly where I'm at, kind of like "what do we/I do now"....
I also keep thinking of the movie title "waiting to exhale". That's exactly how I feel, as though I'm holding my breath to see if it's FOR REAL this time. I'm trying so hard to keep my expectations low, although I don't know what I will do if he goes back to her this time.