Hi Nevanna, thanks, yes it makes me feel better! How long did it take your H to wake up to the point of hating the OW????? I just find it weird that he'll be telling me how flawed she is one day, and then a couple of days later he'll be saying what a good person she is.
I'm curious, why the heck do you suppose they tell the OW how great we are?????? According to H, it used to INFURIATE OW. Why would you make comparisons of your lover to your spouse that you knew were going to make your lover angry? All I can figure out is that maybe it was a way of maintaining "space", or conveying the message in an indirect way that he wasnt going to commit to her.....
Thought just occured to me. Isnt "spouse" a homely word?
