Thanks Nevanna, I think maybe we posted at the same time. This helps alot. I retrospect, it does seem like he opened up this weekend just a tiny bit at a time. So I guess the best thing is to keep being available, and willing to listen.
I am just terrified that they will get back together again. maybe not though, perhaps she truely is sick of hearing about me and has come to believe he will never leave. H never talked much about OW, I would have blown my stack if he did.
How long does it take for this intense grief to run it's course? H did eat last night, after not really eating all weekend, maybe that's a good sign.
I just wish there was something I could do "now" to get things "moving" more/again with us....but I guess patience, patience, patience?
