XRM...well, it's kind of funny now...she rewrote history in regards to her friendship with my H and thought they had a romantic relationship. I know this is not true, because things she said that happened couldn't have--H was with me or with his family. (I understand how she may have gotten the wrong impression...H does come across that way...) And I have literally seen her do this. He would tell me something she said, then he would tell me how she contradicted herself later.
And...things she said were completely confusing my H. She would get all nuts about him spending time with me. (She always called at some point.) She flipped out when he told her he was joining the army. Accused him of "trying to get rid of her" when he said he was going to move into his mom's save money.
She got even weirder. Told H that she knew where I lived, said "I know where she lives, I know where she sleeps." Actually yelled at him when she would see his car at my apartment. Told him that she was going to get a cat that looked like his and give it the same name. (Also thought she was going to get to keep the cats--one of which is mine!)
And then...this was when it really got strange...after we both moved--and we were reconciled--all of the sudden she wasn't "mad" at him anymore. It was like she thought they were "together" again. There was one time when she called him when he was on his way to see me at lunch, and then she got ticked at him because she said he was breaking a lunch date with her. (Keep in mind, he never made plans with her.) Then she got all crappy, said "it wasn't worth it" because he spent more time with me than her. (He was incredibly confused by the whole convo with her.) And then, a couple of days later, she had this whole "breakup" conversation with him--how it wasn't worth it, she "couldn't do it" anymore...the whole bit. (H got pretty excited then, thought she was gone...heh...)
After he moved, she kept insisting he give her directions to the house. (He refused.) She made reference to things I did with his family on the Fourth of July...when H hadn't told her. Accused me of being hostile on the phone when she called the house (MIL asked me to answer the phone)--H was standing right there when I did, so he knows what I said.
She asked for his necklace, the one he never takes off. Suggested they get matching tattoos--"as friends." She got to the point where she was calling him multiple times in a day, over and over, until he would answer the phone. She would call him in the morning and wake him up, when she knew his sleep schedule, just to "hear his voice."
Like I mentioned before, I just knew there was something "wrong" with her from the beginning. Bad vibes, bad aura, bad energy...however you want to label it. But it was there.
The whole thing was really bizarre. (I think I just gave you a rundown of all of the major stuff she's done in the last few months...LOL...) Although she never actually showed up at my place or his, and she never got anymore threatening than saying she knew where I was at...it was still not a fun experience.
