I couldn't be happier for you. I am relieved to hear you say that now you "know". Guess it's time for phase II of your efforts...only this time you won't be doing it alone. Many congrats and good thoughts coming your way!
You are still a prize and very worthy of his pursuit. Let him pursue and reward him when he does. I think it will go a long way to help him heal. (I just re-read what I wrote...jeez, I made him sound like a pet...but you know what I mean.)