It has been so long! If you remember my computer was acting up. It was so strange, I could read the BB and other sites but was unable to type ANYTHING. We thought for sure it had crashed. After many attempts to fix the damn thing it ended up that we needed a new key board. Sounds simple, I know, but the problems seemed more complex than just a keyboard...sigh. Anyway, I'm back!
So I have kept up with your thread as best I could. I am replying to this post in particular because something you wrote jumped out at me. Let's see if I can get this "quote" thing to work....
Quote: don't know if I posted last thursday, but I got an email from him that said "I don't like it when you pull back and withdraw"...
Well, the first thing that popped into my head was....he may NOT like it but 1. doesn't mean it's not GOOD for him and 2. it does seem to get his attention, doesn't it?
Seems as if he only likes the pursuit for so long before he starts complaining about clinginess. (?) (JMHO)
Remember the idea that you are a prize to be won? Why not let him pursue you for a change? If he is wondering about you and what you are doing, it doesn't leave him as much time to think about OW.
He is definately sensitive to your moods. I remember the "why so cold" email. Try using that to your advantage.
He seems very pre-occupied with trying to please both of you in order to keep his options open. And frankly, this just burns me up! Sorry. JMHO, don't make it so incredibly easy for him.
I will stop here. I am really interested in your thoughts. And I really don't want to offend you in anyway. I think highly of you and all of your efforts to save your marriage.
