Of course then I remember a post someone made to me months ago about that we can't "love them out" of the MLC or mess their in.....and I confuse myself.


I guess the important thing is to try it with eyes wide open and see what works...do what works and stop what doesnt work. Obviously being the cool strong, distant type hasnt worked with H....down deep I don't think that's the "real me" either....I've just learned to be that way to try to avoid being hurt.

Maybe we can sometimes "love them out of it" if that's where the problem originated?

been around awhile!