Hi Pen, I don't think we've ever posted to each other and I havent been able to locate your threads, so I'm being very presumptous here, but.... I know on Slowly's thread that you mentioned how you would respond to the email her H sent as a former OW....
I know every sitch is different, but when you were OW, how would you have responded to getting a letter saying that things in the A currently werent meeting his needs that included a list of things that needed to improve? on the list were sex, compassion, not holding grudges, seeing things from others point of view, apologize, see your part, need for reciprocity in the relationship and an explanation of what that is, and several others...
I hope you don't mind my asking, I'm just really curious ( I found this handwritten list on my husbands dresser about a month ago after one of his sleepless nights)
