Chronicles of Morphing into a Red Hot Momma

[sage]

I don't know how wise it is, but if it works I guess it works. Weird, but H & I have had an email conversation this morning.I know Sage, that's against your advice...and I usually follow that kind of a suggestion to a "T" but it's almost like all this pent-up stuff came pouring out...more from him than I usually get, and I felt like I could say what I thought with out getting upset. I've been observing our responses to each other from an emotional view point. I see him coming close when I back up...he actually kind of hung in there today and we discussed communication issues.

Deb -- It IS wise if it works

Sounds like you DB'd perfectly...responding to the changing sitch ... also, you gave your h the opportunity to ASK you what was going on (instead of telling him in response to his question about your leg)...I think you said it yourself...you see him moving closer to you when you back off -- that's a really good observation for you and your sitch!

Sounds like you both did great

Sage