Congrats!! I do hope you'll stop in and post once in a while, it would be nice to hear from someone who's succeeded and is keeping it going!
I'll also second what HP said about bold men. I certainly agree! When I was younger, I found myself often attracted to much older men (never had a relationship with one though). They have a 'quiet confidence' about them, since they've done the 'fighting to the top' and now know what is important to them, know what they want. It's not arrogance, more like acceptance. If a younger man can get there...ohhhh, that would melt me in a second!!!