I love the new you and I can see why your W is attracted to him.
For the last several weeks, something I have been working on with H is to break him of his habit of ASKING me if I want to ML. I hate it. I hate it. I hate it.
To me, it is such an unattractive way of either initiating, or giving me permission to initiate--whatever it's supposed to be. Most of the time, he is trying to "feel me out" and see if I am wanting him to make a move. It is his way of offering me mercy sex, if I'm in the mood. It is also his way of saying that he wants me. So I am never sure if he is saying I want you OR I will have sex with you if you need it. Yuck! I detest this. I am slowly and gently breaking him of this habit and the results are good! Plus, I have been trying to take my own advice and initiating with him in a way that is bold and not wimpy. He likes this way better, too.
I am going to make a generalization here and say that women like bold men. Sounds like you are doing great and she is really responding to your confidence. Go Dave!!!!
