Congrats, seems like you found the secret decoder ring. SSM helped me at least understand my W a little better, and more importantly made me realize that SSM needn't stay that way (I had always assumed that that was just the way it is, and I was 'stuck' with it unless I threw it all away). I'm still trying to understand PM enough to be able make use of it. In any event, we are at least talking, and I too have gotten more in the past 3 weeks than I'd gotten in the past 5 years!!! SHe's hasn't gotten over her embarrasment talking or reading about sex, so no interest yet in reading any books on techniques (I'm hoping that is coming too). Anyway, congrats on your success and hoping that I'm following in your footsteps in regards to my sich.
BTW, What do you fly? One of the consolation prizes of my SSM is that W agreed to and even encouraged me to buy an airplane (a cherokee six). I guess in that light, SSM does have some benefits...I'm not so sure she would have been so agreeable to it if she wasn't feeling a little guilty over the lack of LM.
