We had a pretty decent evening, went out for a chinese meal - an old haunt from 10 years ago, the folks who run the place still recognise us

It was hard going back to the hard learnt lessons from April/May - I really needed to stop the crazymaking, and just be in the moment. It meant letting him take the lead, even if things were not quite as I would have planned them. Often, I start with an idea in mind, and pursue it with some singlemindedness, oblivious to other folks' preferences I can see how NG just went along, because he did not mind one way or the other, but cumulatively, he probably did mind. So now, I'm focusing only on those things that really matter to me. The rest, well, someone else can worry about them.

This morning has been great, we are both just hanging out surfing the web. May go do some grocery shopping, then off to the bank than back home to veg out. My kind of holiday Actually, our kind of holiday

Off to read M&V again. Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time