The begining of a 4 day week for NG and me - we are off on holiday on Friday - wahoo. We have a holiday home that we run to a couple of times year, last time we were there was Xmas last year when I found that the EA was in fact a PA, so in some ways I am dreading this, but know I have to get over it, and hope that the memories will not be too overwhelming
The end of last week was incredibly hectic, I was away for a couple of days, NG came back from his business trip and we went to a concert on Friday night. And NG bought me a verry nice Georg Jensen necklace - wonderful
To top it all, I had to make a roundtrip of 400 miles on Saturday to deliver a half day workshop, and NG decided he will drive me and hang around in the resort doing his work while I did mine. That he understood how difficult it was for me to step in to someone else's work at the last minute. And there I was fretting he might contact OW on Saturday while I was away
Sunday was a day of rest, we had brunch with some friends, and NG was setting up the wireless broadband account for our holiday home - another little 'idea' we tossed about and he has just jumped to with great gusto. I cooked his fav meal for dinner, and we just lolled about in front of the telly all night. Oh yes, we also got news from the estate agent that we have a buyer for the flat - wahoo
In a nutshell, we continue to re-build our relationship, by NOT talking about it, but by being super considerate with each other. I still have triggers, but the emotions they invoke are getting weaker all the time. NG still has OW's numbers in his cell phone memory, not sure why. This is a bit like the token on his key ring, but my guess is he will dig his heels in if I was to make this an issue. But I do wonder.
Still trying to understand my travel companion. Slowly
