Quote: His preferred mode of getting support? Just that I am there for him, do not talk about this issue, and keep distracting him
I know!!! I know!!! They must be clones!!! Does that make us sisters???
Quote: I can see him now primarily struggling to come to terms with what he has done.
I know !! I know!! I think that is why my H is planning these trips. He is now running from the ow, the reality of what he did/caused, and he still hasn't figured out for himself how to handle it all. ( Therapy!! Maybe I need to start subliminal messages.)
Guess we are in the same boat. I can only see both of us needing an inexhaustible supply of patience, tack, dignity, and oh, did I say PATIENCE?
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
