Slowly, Betsey has, as usual, made an excellent point. I too find my mind wandering down memory lane. There is a permenant stop sign there now. It does no good. We can't change what happened. When those thoughts flood in, I do literally stop what I am doing. Then I think of how things have changed.
I don't have the answer as to when the waiting for the other shoe to drop ends. I suspect like everything else, it will come with time, patience, consistenancy and trust.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
