Hi Karen - Thanks for stopping by, your post gave me strength through the weekend

Well, it was a busy one alright, and turns out, busy was just what the doctor ordered for both of us. We got on with things, and did not really have any tense moments. Not much in terms of blinding joy, but peace and contentment. It was good.
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It's the wanting our H to "give" us more than they seem to be capable of. I agree w/Sage that NG is just dealing with things in a diff way than you want to or want him to.


Actually, when he does choose to talk, it is clear it is still about him. He is being so consumed by guilt, there is little else going on. Though, he does keep saying that who I was made it easier for him to break free from the 'fog' and see where his heart and future lay. I guess this is yet another proof that dbing is the way to go. NG tells me that it was important for him to see the good things about us, to give him strength to break free from A. Huh.
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What can you do to ditch the memories?

In the short term, which NG is still in his little world, best I can do is to keep busy and just not have time or energy for these memories In the long term, I know the only way is to make new, more powerful memories.

Ah well, another week, one that promises to be uber hectic. Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time