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I find the lies more damaging than the affair itself.


This is my struggle as well - though we are nowhere near reconciling, the "affair" is not what hurts me day after day, it is the hiding and the lies. It is hard.

Give it time. You have a long life together to recover from this. Perhaps in time you will find NG being more open.

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