This exchange also brought one of my intended actions into mind. My plan is that when H and I are on the road to reconciliation, I will start seeing a counsellor to help me direct and squish my crazymaking which will be running rampant. Maybe a counsellor would be an option for you?
Current Thread Me: 39, H: 35 Kids: S14/D13/D11 1995-04 Married 2003-08 Bomb 2003-09 Separated
H and I are on the road to reconciliation, I will start seeing a counsellor to help me direct and squish my crazymaking which will be running rampant. Maybe a counsellor would be an option for you? 
