Unfortunately this sounds familiar to me too - coming from me! Only for me it was "whatever!"
Go back and read DR/DB about how to change the interactions. Maby "change the medium?" Write a small letter outlining your concerns and needs - not real pushy, just state the facts.
This is hard - you are the one who has been working on your communication and R skills, NG hasnt. And you cannot force-feed him the skills. Demonstrate them instead. Change the patterns, and let him follow. At some point I am willing to bet he will wonder how you have changed those patterns and come to you to understand.
Patience and understanding. Keep it up!
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