Hi GBO - You and me both - it still baffles me that he had such confidence that we may be dented, but unbroken.
No, MC was never discussed, he and I both agree that there was nothing obviously wrong, and I guess we are at the point now where I'm comfortable exploring what was wrong, but he is not yet. Everyine in his family has been through some sort of counselling, and I think he is adamant he will not go the same route. What was that about cutting one's nose to spite face
