Slowly, I think the hardest part of DBing is knowing you need to follow what your head tells you, but it seems to conflict with what your heart feels and it stirs up such a struggle within. Sometimes you have to take the time to search deep down in your heart to know that your best chance of making things right again is to follow our heads (filled with all this DBing stuff that is) to bring the heart back in alignment again with your head and quiet down the doubts and fears that stir up those negative emotions.
Hang in there Slowly, the outlook for you two is still very promising.
