Understanding My Travel Companion

[sage]

And then the almost anti-climax after the letter NG wrote to OW. Nothing else has happened. No apology, no chats about how he is feeling, no asking me how I'm coping. Just pretending that the A never happened. I'm really not happy with this. I have a lot more questions, and feel NG would just prefer they are never asked. Not sure how to tackle this one. Feeling out of sorts, and honestly, it is a combination of things.

You actually answered your own question in your post when you signed your name...the answer is:

Slowly

I'm not trying to be glib or invalidating (really!). I know well the desire for closure, for action, for things to HAPPEN...but time will be your good friend here...

The letter to the OW was a major, major step and the next disclosure, the next big step forward will happen, just not necessarily on your time table...babysteps, no?

Maybe give yourself a break from looking for the next "sign"? Do some fun thing, something action-oriented to lighten the load for both of you?

Sage