Well, the service was yesterday, and I could not attend as it is in his hometown some 400 miles away. But I'll be driving up to see his wife next Monday, so happens I have to visit a client in the same town on Tuesday, will just go up an extra day.
Been getting updates from some other friends who did go to the service, and have spent time with his wife, so am feeling much better. We all seem to have a role to play, it is always good to be actually DOING something.
NG is still out of town, he called me in the morning, but since then nothing. Wonder what he is feeling, thinking. I'm no closer to understnding my travel companion. I did notice that OW's numbers are still programmed in his mobile phone - not really snooping as we use each other's phone liberally - all he said is that he will erase the numbers 'when he is ready' whatever that means
Going to get some more KLA stuff done today - I'm no closer to understanding myself either Slowly
Slowly 
