T2;

You were the very first person to respond to me 5 months ago when I first came to this board. You were a font of inspiration and help then just as you are now.

Personally, I am working on my self-esteem, insecurity and jealousy. I'm definitely NOT in the same place that I was 5 months ago, but I also haven't really "found it" yet. I haven't found self-esteem - I haven't found a way to be secure and happy with who I am just as I am - and I still have jealousy over OW and the possibility of there always being an OW in any relationship that I might have in the future. However, I know that there is a better place out there and I am working toward that just a little bit every day. As Sage says "I am a work in progress".

Thank you T2 for being here when you were and for coming back!
Totally