Jan - I love this thread, it gives everyone the platform to look above the fence, away from our own little drama, and celebrate just how far we have all come.
It is 13 months since NG's a began, 10 months since he told me about it. We seem to be mending our relationship, but I KNOW I've said goodbye to many hang-ups, some I did not even know I had. Like Sage, I know my job on myself is not done, I'm happy to be a work-in-progress.
Slowly 
