T2, I can understand how you feel. So, here's a positive for me; joining the Catholic church has brought me a sense of peace, calm and hope. Also, I am more patient and try to avoid an argument. I let lots more go than I ever would have in the past. It's the old adage of "pick your battles" and there are so many things that are just not worth the fuss. It maintains an atmosphere of calmness which is helpful for my sitch.