Hey..T2..great thread..I remember posting to you a few times..I am happy to say I am one of the success stories to restoring my m....but mostly I restored myself, as so many here have said..the journey we have all faced has changed us for the better..this awful rollercoaster ride opened up both my h and my eyes to our life as it was.
I have found myself falling back to not putting myself first lately..and I don't like it..but all in all life is good..I would not have survived had it not been for this support here...I think I would have been like the norm..and gone right to court just to get it over with. Funny thing is I work in court with d all day long..I see how so many people might benefit from this bb.. sorting out their lives, and in the end maybe saving their m and their families..it si so sad to see the anger that everyone has..and who gets hurt the most..the kids..
To anyone reading this and thinking it could never turn around..don't give up..oh don't stop living..but don't give up.