Hi Nik ! I agree whole heartedly...that's why I stopped coming to the board. While I love the friends I've made here, I couldn't continue to live their pain without buying some of it for myself...so I went and hid, for a while.
I decided to work JUST on ME. Sure, my H is home and he's a better man than he's ever been but HE is no longer my priority (I know that sounds awful but it's TRUE)...I am now MY priority and ya know what? Since I've become more ME focused, my H has become more US focused. T2
