Jan what a great thread. Do you think JJ could actually add "New Topics" as a BB category?
I find when things are going well it makes it hard to read all of the sitch's other people are going thru. It sometimes makes me dwell on the neg. and that brings me down.
It's true alot of the "success stories" move on and it is always great to hear from the ones who's M's survived.
I read this from the "Rules" book:
"In a Rules marriage, any work you have to do is on yourself-being happy or easy to be with, pursuing your career and interests, staying fit-not figuring out how to get your husband's attention."
I think most trains of thoughts point to independance and not being needy. Whether we end of M or D from our S's we can all end up as success stories!!!
