Is there someone that can help me here

[AMiTHEOW]

Hi Sin,

Thank you for the good luck wishes!! This would really be VERY helpful for my PMA right now. I am not currently employed and I think this is why I have so much time to focus on my H.

As far as the OW, I agree. I believe he DOES want me to pursue him, but I will NOT. My H knows I can "out-wait" him. Also, I don't know if I said it already but I do not even really think he was being honest when he threw it up in my face. We S once before and I begged, and pleaded, and chased him for MONTHS. (didn't know about DB then) This time, only in the last couple of weeks, have I shown a bit of chase but NOTHING like before. I believe it is shaking him up and he wants to redirect my focus on him. He is wondering what is holding my attention away from him. How immature is he? I haven't read the 5LL's, however his MUST be affirmation.

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On the other hand, if he DOES have OW and he desires her SO then what role do I play in this?

I need financial assistance for my son and I. Should I wait until he calls, or should I just leave a voicemail? I just thought about this. I don't know what to do regarding that and my H is going away on 8/26.