Is there someone that can help me here

[AMiTHEOW]

Sin, these are really good pointers. (is it ok that I call you Sin? ) I am going to put them to work as soon as I can.

H has not called since I sent the email. Is it really that bad? All of the ranting I do on the BB I honestly do not do in front of him. I don't understand why he backed up on communication, or could it possibly be because I am saying I no longer agree with the "sleepovers?"

For some reason your H loves to throw his OW and you "OM" in your face. Simply don't allow it. If you are on the phone with him, small talk with him (no R talk) and when this subject comes up, tell him politely but firmly you will not talk about either of these subjects.

This is what puzzles me the most. I understand WHY he would throw up phantom "OM," because this is a HUGE fear for him. What would be the reason for throwing up OW, especially after he told me he did NOT have OW. Nonetheless, I feel great today. I got a call this morning regarding a job interview scheduled for Wednesday and I am very excited. I will focus on that and keep my PMA up.