I must be ignorant, just can't figure out how our spouses can't figure out that they will get more out of us if we get more out of them. Even when we tell them how it is, would think they would be more happy to comply, at least sometimes. After all, isn't marriage a give and take relationship? Isn't it both partners giving of themselves?
Annette who has a horrible sinus headache today and is somewhat pesamistic about things
